In Which I Blather On Some More

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

I waited over 6 months to post this....

CONGRATULATIONS! To Merrow and C, who got engaged in Switzerland when we were in Europe last fall.

When I met up with them in Annecy, she held up her left hand and blinded me with the rock, then said "You're not allowed to say anything yet."
The happy couple on our last night in Paris. Note that Merrow is totally hiding her left hand in this picture.
There is quite a story behind their engagement, but let's just say it involves: delayed and then cancelled flights, rebooking of both airline and train tickets, multiple international cell phone calls and texts, stress drinking by Merrow, C pulling out the "but I am going to propose, you HAVE to get me there" card, the Swiss Alps, and one "I just repacked my bag, no I do NOT have room to carry anything of yours" eyeroll.

They are getting married in August and I couldn't be happier for them!

(I'm trying to go back and add some more posts about my trip to France before I completely forget all the details.)

Monday, April 1, 2013

Monday Montage

Back in the middle of February, some of my Internet friends came to visit for a weekend. We ate and drank and went to the patisserie down the road and went to a winery and ate and drank some more.

Then on Sunday I went and bought bigger pants. True story!

Here are some pictures from the weekend wine tasting.

"These balls are on fire" - Quarkie, with one of the many inappropriate quotes uttered over the weekend.

Tasty wine! Shortie, me, Craftosaurus, KL4W, and Quarkie
 
Craftosaurus thinks she looks like Justin Beiber in this picture. The rest of us think the Beeb wishes he looks this awesome.

Wine smiles - Craftosaurus, KL4W, and Quarkie

Week 1 Estimate

Estimated spending for Monday April 1 to Friday April 5

Monday - should be able to get away with nothing
Tuesday - gas fill-up ($50) and midweek groceries (milk, veggies, bread $15)
Wednesday - Wine Weds, gift card
Thursday - Bruins game: pregame drink ($8), food and drinks at the Garden ($30), parking ($6). I have credit on my CharlieCard, so no T tickets needed.
Friday - lunch out ($11)

Total for the week = $120

Bills scheduled:
Mortgage on the 5th and my check for my homeowners' association should clear this week.

And my weekly menu plan, just for fun:
Mon Lunch - can of soup with crackers
Mon Dinner - angel hair pasta with veggies and cheese
Tue L - leftover pasta
Tue D - green eggs and ham
Wed L - MOAR green eggs and ham
Wed D - wine Weds!
Thu L - ham sandwich
Thu D - at the B's game
Fri L - out, probably Chipotle
Fri D - frozen pizza

Welcome to Austerity April

In the first quarter of 2013, I spent over 7% of my take-home pay on dining out. This is not counting vacation eating, already-fixed meals that I picked up at the grocery store, or 20-ounce Cokes at $1.79 a pop from the convenience store. This is not conducive to take-another-trip-to-Paris and buy-a-house-get-out-of-the-condo savings plans. I need a vacation from spending and to get myself back on track.

So: I am declaring this a (Mostly) No-Spend Month. No-spend months have become pretty common around the blogosphere, no need for explanation. My "mostly" qualifier probably needs some clarification, so here it is.
1. I have Bruins and Sox tickets. I am allowed to buy reasonable amounts of food and drink at such, plus pay for parking and transportation and fun things like that.
2. I am not changing any of my autopay bills, gym membership, Netflix, etc for the month. I am going to try to actually make use of them though.
3. I am allowed to take Merrow out for her birthday, and have drinks and queso with Sprockets.
4. Wine Wednesday at Riddle's is ok as long as I use the gift card I have. Ditto coffee from Dunks.
5. Lunch out on Friday if I've behaved for the week.

Basically I'm just trying to rein myself in on eating out multiple times a week, impulse purchases from Target and Amazon, and buying any more clothes/shoes/house stuff right now.

I'm going to post spending estimates for the week and weekend on Mondays and Fridays, with updates on how I did.

Less spending, more cooking at home, maybe even working out a little. Here we go.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Holiday Tranquility

There is a lot going on in my life right now. Work is busy, social life is busy, I've over-extended myself on projects around the house, and it is the holiday season on top of that. I feel like the brain hamsters have been spinning their wheels especially fast lately.

Last night as I sat at Wine Night, I pulled some scrap paper (actually, a used envelope) out of my purse and started jotting down things I need to accomplish over the next few evenings, plus lists of things I need to tell certain people so I don't forget. Along with notes to finish paining my cabinets, mail some packages, and write my Christmas cards, I decided to put Meditate for 15 Minutes on the list each evening.

After I got home with my leftover wine, I buzzed around the house for about an hour and a half, straightening and painting and crossing things off the list. And then, just before heading upstairs to get ready for bed, I turned out all the lights except for the candles in the window and the Christmas trees. I sat on the floor, looking up at the lights and decorations of Sam the Balsam. I focused on some of the different ornaments, reflecting on where and when I acquired them. Boo came over for some lovings, rubbing his face on my hands and crawling into my lap for a few minutes. Finally, I sang a couple of very off-tune Christmas carols. It took 15 minutes before bed, and really did relax me.

There are 12 more days until Christmas. I think I will be adding this to my nightly schedule.

Friday, November 23, 2012

Buy Nothing Friday

I really dislike how crazy this whole Black Friday shopping thing has gotten. It's the dark side of humanity: stampeding hordes at midnight because they can save $50 on a new tv.

I know people who "do" Black Friday. They do get fantastic deals on clothes, toys, and other things so that they can give their children a happy Christmas morning without breaking the bank. My scorn is not for them.

Heck, I've done Black Friday a few times myself. 6When I have, it's been years when I had a pretty good idea of what I wanted to get for everyone on my shopping list, and I was able to finish all or most of my holiday shopping.

After listening to the horror stories from some friends who work retail full-time, I just couldn't do it this year. The whole "stores open at  6am! no, 4am! no, midnight! no, 8-fricken-pm-on-Thanksgiving-Day" is ridiculous. So I decided to participate in the Buy Nothing Day "boycott" of the big-box stores. How did I do?

Well, I wound up spending $80. Not exactly "Nothing". But I tried to be conscientious in my spending, I think I made some pretty reasonable purchasing choices.

-$15 to hire a Personal Minion (aka one of my Girl Scouts) for 3 hrs of helping me put away garden stuff, put up my outdoor Christmas decorations, and gather some firewood and kindling from all the downed limbs in the woods.
-$44 at the Orange Big Box hardware store to rent a multi-position ladder to hang things up high in my stairwell.
-$18 at my local, independent, family-owned hardware store for joint compound and a spreader. Because what everyone wants to do on a holiday weekend is fix drywall. But I have the ladder, so might as well fix the dinged walls that have been driving me nuts for 7 years.
-And finally, $3 on a soda and Powerball ticket. Totally unnecessary purchase, other than the fact that I needed to break a $20 so I could pay my Minion.

Tomorrow is Small Business Saturday. Seems like a good excuse for me to go get frou-frou coffee, a giant cupcake, and some handmade truffles at the local patisserie!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

In Which We Prove That Every Vote Really DOES Count

Here are some facts and figures to chew on, followed by a rant.

New Hampshire has one of the largest parliamentary bodies (read: legislature) in the English-speaking world. The NH General Court is made up of the Senate, with 24 members, and the House, with 400 members. No, I did not add a 0 by accident. That's right - Four. Hundred.

NH population according to the 2010 US Census is 1,318,194. That gives us 1 Representative for every 3295 residents.

Out of the 1.3 million NH residents, 21.2% are under the age of 18 and therefore unable to vote. So the voting population is (at most) 1,038,736. As of January 2012, there are 791,249 registered voters in NH. Which drops our Rep-to-resident ratio all the way down to 1/1978.

In the 2008 Presidential election, NH voter turnout was 72.5% (kicking the national turnout rate of 61%, I might add). Assuming a similar turnout this year, that puts us at 573,656 ballots cast in NH. Which now drops the ratio to 1 Representative per every 1434 voters. How few people it now takes to swing the election one way or another.

My presidential vote may be a drop in the ocean, but my vote for State Representative is more like a drop in a shot glass. Although, I should say my votes. I actually have 8 votes for State Rep. My district is my town, and based on our town population, we get 8 Representatives. It's not broken down by area any further, so I currently have a ballot with 16 names from which to choose.

I understand not breaking the district down further to assign each Representative a specific area. I'm not crazy about it, I think it makes it much harder for me to understand who my elected Representatives are and who they stand for, but I do understand. I don't really understand why NH needs 400 Representatives, but that's coming from someone who grew up in a similarly small state that manages to get by with merely 151 Representatives.

What I do not understand is why, on Election Eve, I can find so little information on any of my 16 choices. I very much dislike voting "blind" - I want to have at least read up on a candidate or an issue before I make my choice. At this point in my life, I do not vote a party-line ticket. However, I feel like that is what I am going to have to do tomorrow if I want to vote for Representatives at all.

No candidate websites with their policy statements. Barely half of them answered the questionnaire sent out by the Town Patch online newspaper - and that had more questions about their hometowns, families, and education than it did about their ideas for government.

I am incredibly frustrated that I feel completely incapable of making an informed decision. And I'm wondering, if getting elected doesn't actually seem to require any campaigning beyond having a voter decide they like the way your name looks on paper, then maybe I should run for State Representative. I mean, throw up a cheap, static, 1-page website and I'd already be miles ahead of my competition....

On second thought, never mind. A wee bit of research shows that NH Reps and Senators get paid a whopping $200 per biennium. And I didn't drop a 0 this time either.